Being at peace with our life choices

The more we believe that things will happen on their own, the more we might be setting ourselves up for disappointment and confusion.

Frequently, we hear individuals, or even catch ourselves, expressing the belief that events will unfold as they are meant to. For instance, when facing the anxiety of a job interview, we may reassure ourselves with the notion that if the position is meant for us, we’ll succeed. Or when we find ourselves getting estranged from our loved ones, we think to ourselves; maybe that was for the best, maybe this was meant to happen.