Why should Nepali society stop glorifying the self-sacrifice and self-betrayal of women?

Recently, I asked a few women in Nepali society what they love about being a woman. The majority of them answered that they love being a woman because of their enduring nature.

Women, in Nepali society and alike in particular, have, for a long, intrinsically tied their love for their families neglecting their own needs and themselves. But, it is time for us, young women, to break this cycle and question such beliefs that we have all been made to trust. It is time to be somehow selfish, to defend ourselves from patriarchal beliefs for ourselves and for our mothers who put themselves through so much futile, avoidable and needless trauma.